Food addiction, Overeating & Cravings: Recognizing Emotional Eating Patterns
“Emotional eating” is usually defined as eating to satisfy or quell a feeling of depression, conflict, boredom or loss. Emotional eating can also happen when the feelings are not overtly negative, such as with excitability or happiness that makes you want to celebrate. Whether the mood or feeling is positive or negative, the desire to eat is different than hunger.
To complicate matters, some foods have addictive, mind altering qualities. The book written by Dr. Andrew Weil back in 1983 was aptly named “Chocolate to Morphine”. The human desire or craving for an altered state of consciousness is well-established. “Chocolate to Morphine” offers that drugs will not be eradicated as long as the desire for altered states is alive and well. I extend this to how we eat. A person’s craving for chocolate or tendency to overeat & over drink will not be cured until the need for an altered state of consciousness is resolved.
Let’s look at the effect of emotional eating. According to a study published in The New England Journal of Medicine, researchers discovered that the six weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year’s account for 51% of the annual weight gain in average American Adults. This effect was significantly more pronounced in overweight adults. (Yanovski, March 23, 2000) While this study is revealing of something we all suspected, knowing this information has not changed the pattern over the past decade.
Look at the internet, and you would think that emotional eating is easily resolved with just a few quick steps. At a major medical center website there is a list of what to do. Some examples include: Don’t keep unhealthy foods around, Snack healthy, Eat a balanced diet, Exercise regularly.
This is over half of the treatment options for emotional eating patterns and none of them get at the emotional choice that precedes the craving or desire to eat. To their credit, they do offer the suggestion of distracting yourself with a walk or healthy activity instead of eating. But all of these treatments involve doing something different. We have to change the behavior of our being, not just our doing.
We all know the diets that state, “Do these 8 steps and have the body you’ve always wanted!” We want to believe them so we but the magazine. But part of us knows the emptiness that lies in such a promise.
If you just change your behavior but not your being, your reward is as temporary as the “happiness” imparted by a chocolate candy bar. Weight loss in “doing” and “having” based programs are temporary at best.
The FatBack Diet Cure for Emotional Eating
Look at your lifestyle and assess where you exercise the three steps.
- Mindfulness (of the body)
- Physical activity
- Ritual
Finding your way toward more mindful and inspired eating should positively affect every other part of your life. Your ritual or routine or habit life will then reinforce the foundation that you live upon.
Mindfulness
We start here. Mindfulness as interpreted by the Merriam-Webster Dictionary is “The state of being full of realization, perception or knowledge.”
OK, so you didn’t bargain for this. You only wanted to lose a few pounds not attain self-enlightenment, right? But I don’t think there is a shortcut.
Systems theory simplified
BE à DO à HAVE
BE
If you want to have a leaner body, you must start at the being. Here is why. Thinking an planning are part of the being phase of any system. Being involves apprehension. The BE phase results in acquiring data until there is comprehension and an appreciation for underlying principles is gained. Sounds a lot like mindfulness doesn’t it. Apprehension is an operative experience. The movement of SLOW FOOD throughout the world brings light to the mindfulness required to our entire food process from land to farmer to you.
DO
This is the implementation phase, the time for you to take action. In a larger system this is time for all the players to come together in concert. The farmer who has been rotating location of a pasture raised chicken pen is part of this play. The actions we take at mealtime are not just coming from mindful eating, but part of a bigger system of mindful food preparation and sustainable agriculture. There is no sustainable way that this can be fast and voluminous food. This will be slow food. This will be sustainable.
HAVE
You have a body that is sustainable. You own your accomplishment, not some doing-based weight loss program. You are lean and strong as intended. You are also part of the solution toward healthy FatBack living.
Physical Activity
Fact: Weight loss without exercise results in substantially more muscle mass loss and bone density loss than if exercise is simultaneous with weight loss.
Forget most of what you have heard about “calories burned during exercise”. Exercise machines and exercise charts painstakingly try to relate activities to calories burned. Like twenty minute on a treadmill at moderate speed represents 300 calories burned. The flaw in this thinking is known. Your metabolism, exercise efficiency and underlying health condition all play a significant role.
The higher the percentage body fat you start with, the more you body is metabolically sluggish, even with activity. OK that’s the bad news. The good news is that with every percent of body fat lost (lean body % gained), you become more metabolically active and more efficient at weight loss through an improved metabolism.
Being physically active is about more than just exercise. Our body requires movement to circulate blood and especially lymph. Without deep breathing our thoracic duct drains poorly. Dr. Gerald Lemole, accomplished cardiac surgeon and deep breathing advocate states “The lymph system is the river of life,” he says, “a river nobody knows.” Deep breathing is probably one of the more important aspects to our exercise.
Is outdoor activity important? Does it matter what I do? Yes and sort of. People who exercised outdoors were twice as likely to have healthy vitamin D levels as those who exercise in a gym. How well you stick to an exercise plan relates to both how well it integrates with your life and your relative enjoyment of the activity. But outdoors may even be important here too. In 2000, the British Heart Association and Countryside Agency found that 50% of people participating in an exercise gym dropped out after 6-months. But 80% of those in the outdoor walking program stayed with it citing “being in the countryside” was part of their adherence.
Like children have been told for thousands of years…”Go out and play.”
Ritual
Ritual: “Done in accordance to social custom or normal protocol.” Ritual was not hard for my great grandmother, Jesepina Paiano. Her Sicilian social customs set the stage for what she would eat, how she would prepare it, and that she would walk the miles to procure fresh food daily. In a word, she had “cuisine”.
Cuisine may need to be relearned in your life. Some of it lies in certain rules we should have heard as children, “Don’t spoil your dinner by eating ahead of mealtime”, “Don’t insult the chef with the whine, “I don’t like this””, “don’t over fill you plate”. But cuisine can also become a discovery of how to make a perfect pastry crust with lard like your grandmother.
Ritual helps us understand when a meal is eaten and how much it contains. If 2 and ½ meals per day are the goal, lunch and dinner might be the bigger meals, while breakfast is a half meal. The French call breakfast “Petit dejeuner” or little lunch.
Having a normal protocol allows for patterned appropriate eating habits rather than emotional eating habits. Having a meal time that is part of our ritual life means that no matter how stressful a day may become, there is a respite, several time in the day.